A Place for Everyone: The ‘A’ in LGBTQIA Music

BY KATHERINE CHUNG

No, the ‘A’ in LGBTQIA does not stand for an ally—and it never should. The ‘A’ in LGBTQIA stands for ace or aro, often short for asexual and aromantic. April 6th is International Asexuality Day.

According to The Trevor Project, “It’s important to remember that asexuality is an umbrella term, and exists on a spectrum. Asexual people — also known as “Ace” or “Aces” — may have little interest in having sex, even though they desire emotionally intimate relationships. Within the ace community, there are many ways for people to identify [Demisexual, Grey-A, Queerplatonic, Asexual].” That said, it can be challenging for aces when many Pop, Indie, and R&B mainstream artists have released songs that focus specifically on sex or intimate romantic relationships.

Despite the surge in LGBTQIA music over the past five years, representation for asexual individuals within the music community remains limited. While the coming-out stories of artists like Chappell Roan, Maren Morris, and Renee Rapp have resonated with fans this year, they represent only a part of the LGBTQIA spectrum. We praise these artists for their courage and words, even though we have been fans of them for some time. But when was the last time you heard a song that was not about romance or sexuality? Can you recall a live television performance by an artist that was not centered around those themes?

According to HRC’s analysis of the 2021 LGBTQ+ Community Survey, “82% of asexual people said their highest priority health concern is addressing mental health challenges, including depression and anxiety.” Usually coined as an identity crisis, or a ‘I haven’t met the right person yet, and I don’t want to date phase.’ 

One of the most powerful ways people find comfort is by seeing themselves reflected in media, other people, or meaningful stories. Outside of the music industry, the only asexual stories that have been highlighted have been through minor characters in television. Just to name a few CA$H from Heartbreak High is a closeted asexual who comes out throughout a few episodes. Isaac from Heartstopper is a beloved aro/ace character who is always found reading books. Florence, a minor character in Sex Education, a show famous for its comedic approach to sex education, appears briefly—only once or twice—to represent the asexuality storyline.

Entertainment is not the only realm where LGBTQIA representation thrives; music has become a cornerstone for the queer community, offering a transformative outlet for self-expression and connection. Music is pivotal in fostering understanding and unity, whether offering solace, affirming shared experiences, or providing anthems for celebration.

 Asexual musicians are often overlooked and lack widely recognized coming-out anthems. Former American Idol star David Archuleta identifies on the asexual spectrum. Many people may not, especially given his music, which often explores themes of romance and love. His nostalgic lyrics, “See, it's a chance we've gotta take/ 'Cause I believe that we can make this into/ Something that will last, last forever/ Forever,” don't suggest that the relationship he references is sexual, and he also wasn't openly out and proud in 2008 either.

In addition to David Archuleta, who has established a name for himself in the music industry, Kim Deal from The Pixies has publicly identified as asexual, and Cavetown identifies as being on the ace/aro spectrum. By sharing their experiences, these artists have provided a sense of community and hope for asexual individuals. The music we listen to and the artists we admire significantly shape our views on society. Regardless of whether you are familiar with these artists, their stories about being asexual are important and deserve recognition.